The Root of Interpersonal Relations

When two individuals interact, there's always a background; some circumstance. In one's world, every action, interaction, word & gesture keep their own significance. Most of us interact with expectation of some durable association, there is a hope of presenting the best parts of one's personality in the background, full of positive energy. It may go perfectly if there is no crisis in the environment. Many great interpersonal relations start in this setting, a present full of positive communication, with the hope of a future more blissful, benefiting both sides.

The opposite happens in presence of some crisis in the horizon. The roots may be pre-existent from past; or come into being in present due to immediate actions, words, impressions: a turbulence sets in. Many a times it is obsession-driven for some preoccupied individuals, resulting in some sort of impulsive behaviour. Here sets in the initiation of flow of some negative energy into the environment if there is resistance in any form from the other person(s).

Causations & Conclusions: Broaden Your View

Patience brings in all good things. It's always better to give a second thought and reflect post action, giving a chance to alternative hypotheses to form. Since time teaches us everything, heals everything & gives us a second chance, often. Hence it's the best to broaden our vision because we need to be in a ready position to act to perfection when time gives us a second chance. All is not gone in a single go, everything has got a follow through.

Broadening our vision simply makes us wiser; it not only helps us to think, analyse & plan that would reflect greatly on us in future, but also it suppresses our suspicions and give a direction to our inquisitiveness in a more fruitful direction, nullifying confusion of all sorts. It keeps our minds open to a thousand more solutions, burying all sorts of obsessions & negative impulses.

With our mere earthly souls & earthly minds, every new situation sort of traps us as many things are still new for us, irrespective of our experience & knowledge; often we just expect someone give us some support, some help. But a strong & visionary man carries his own beams, props & buttresses to every new situation, maintaining his standard.

Meeting new friends & getting lost in the jungle are two possible alternative outcomes in each situation of life. In the first you gain, secure your aides for future & come back assured. In the second, you lose whatever you have just to escape unscathed. A perfect spine is always required in order to convert every next unknown thing into a familiar one.

Lying low often brings in peace & stability

In special circumstances, this proves handy. When you are subjected to vulnerable conditions and going through a lot of hostilities, it's always the best policy to lie low and work silently. A silent worker not only remains steady in his efforts, but also prevents many confusions. This gives a strong message both to friends & foes, that you haven't left the battle and you are not ready to lose ground. Defeat never descends upon the lives of such people. Often the most deserving is not given his due, but glory rises for him at the end. When conducive environment sets in, you just come out of your hideout, rendezvous' with your allies and move on to excel. Temporary humiliation must not shake a real hero, rather he greets each challenge with great humility, he sees it eye to eye, never thinks of escaping it nor tries finishing the battle with a blink of the eye. A real winner knows, the war is always on and he needs good people in his side, to remain forever unbeatable.

Routine life or the breaks, what do u remember the most?

Shorter memories are sweeter. As our weekdays are longer, we don't remember much about,eagerly we wait for the weekends so that something different can occur, some new & different places, food, music, people, voices & experiences: anything new is great. So is our long vacations, we become altogether different a person, our inner creativity gets unleashed. If it occurs once in a while, we feel alive.